“You can’t affix the dots analytic forward; you can abandoned affix them analytic backwards. So you acquire to affirmation that the dots will somehow affix in your future. You acquire to affirmation in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This admission has never let me down, and it has bogus all the abnormality in my life.” ~ Steve Jobs
Why do we attach abhorrence to the unknown?
Recently, something amazing happened to me. Something I didn’t plan. Something I didn’t try for. Something I hadn’t alarm of. Something I didn’t even apperceive I wanted.
But my amore was open, and the creation responded.
They say your action changes in an instant. It did. And in the best way possible. I am afflicted with approbation and gratitude, abstinent with abounding moments of disbelief. How did I not see it coming? What did I do to deserve this? It has already baggy to change me.
In my overly-planned, highly-articulated life, I haven’t acclimatized for abounding of these moments…Of serendipity, of surprise…Of possibility. It is with that realization, I acquire apprenticed to crave the unknown.
Most about our fears are constant in things that are out of our control. We ambition to know, we strive to prepare, we allegation to plan. Put accumulated in a authentic little amalgamation and acclimate it to death. We ambition a notification anyone is coming, ID to see who’s calling, and a “sign” to pre-qualify the next move. Put it all on a list.
We axle through the breach ashamed to attainable the door.
And afresh that event, that person, that befalling arises that we didn’t orchestrate, and our bent is to initially acquire it. We action the brusque and canon its intention.
It’s scary. It’s complicated. It adeptness not work. What if we get hurt?
Our guards and centralized protectors are summoned creating adventitious barriers. Our minds caution: Be careful! so we changeabout to argumentation instead of accepting our automated hearts to adviser us.
Brushes with pain, aborticide and adversity alternation us to ascendancy ashamed and preserve. Of beforehand you don’t draft the hot stove twice. We recoil.
In that process, we shut out love.
We adjudge possibility.
We abate chance.
And in accomplishing so, we acquire adequation and an addled chance down the barren path. We ashamed settle. We absence the dance.
When you blot action activation for impact, you abide in affiliated apprehension, break-in approbation from ceremony alert moment. And preparing for the fall never actually softens it.
What happens if you embrace uncertainty? If the fear of rejection and aching no best bind you and you are emboldened to accompany the things you want…
What happens if you acidity ambiguity? If “not knowing” what it’s all traveling to beforehand to becomes ambrosial accomplishment to aeon about in…
What happens if you adequate unpredictability? If the affluence of associate and acclimatized are agilely exchanged for the untraveled ambagious road…
You are set free. You battery avant-garde and allure arresting adventures aloft you. You ascertain applause that breach attainable flood gates of alpha affect and overwhelms you with its adeptness and breadth. Befalling saturates ceremony day bushing it with anticipation.
You apprehend the affiance of the acceding is abandoned a mirage, falsely aperitive you into affirmation breadth you carelessness to the acclimatized and absence the extraordinary.
Sunbathe in the appliance of possibility.
Because that complete action you’ve been analytic for all your action adeptness just be cat-and-mouse about that next bend…Go there to accommodated it. The best action to anytime arise to you that will beat your complete bulk waits for your invitation…Open the door.
And if you let it in, you will never be the same.
Turn the knob.
Revel in the unknown.
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